4 Critical Skills Funeral Professionals Need to Embrace Change

It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power. – Alan Cohen

I think funeral directors know better than anyone: change is a constant. You see it every day, through the window of death and dying – certainly dramatic changes for the families you work with.

Other changes which surround every one of us are more subtle: the new stop light in town or the silent closure of local small businesses, brought about by the economic downturn of the past 12 months. It seems they disappear overnight, leaving us less than what we were the day before. Loss is all around us, and is a major motivator for change.

But, as we grow older, we’re a bit resistant to change…and that can spell trouble for both our businesses and our personal lives. Learning to accept change is one thing; but learning to embrace it is quite another.

Spencer Johnson, M.D., author of Who Moved My Cheese? documented four critical change skills:

Skill 1: Anticipating Change

The ability to notice smaller changes now and realize what is likely going to happen next.

Skill 2: Taking New Actions Now

Quickly doing something new, evaluating the results, then doing something differently again.

Skill 3: Moving Beyond Fear

Noticing when fear or comfort are holding you back, and then moving past it.

Skill 4: Imagining Real Success

The ability to picture an ideal outcome from the change for yourself, your team, and your entire organization.

However, in order to put these skills into action, you need to have a clear understanding of the reality of your business, and determine not only what needs to change, but what’s feasible to change.

Here are 3 things to keep in mind while navigating your way through the path of change:

1. Without risk, there is no reward. Change presents huge opportunities, as well as huge hazards. And in this economy, that could mean big implications on your business. However, for most small-to-medium size firms, it’s not a question of whether or not you should embrace change—it’s about which changes are worth the risk, and which aren’t.

2. Don’t do too much. One of the biggest mistakes, or so I’ve been told by my advisors, is doing too much. In tough economic times, it’s critical to re-examine the products and services you currently offer your families. The ones that provide them the most value and have the biggest impact on your firm are the only ones you should be focusing on.

3. Know what’s important. Take a step back and put things in perspective. Ask yourself these questions to determine where you need to focus your efforts:

– What do my families really need?

– What is the community asking me for?

– What have I done well in the past that was really successful?

– What were those products or services that I spent a lot of time and money on that really didn’t bring me much payoff?

As Executive Director of the Association of Women Funeral Professionals, I’m forced to consider these things every single day; our very ‘newness’ requires it. You should be doing the same thing. After all, the traditions of funeral service are falling away, and new technologies are bringing significant changes to how you do what you do. Is your target market ready for them? Are you ready for them?

We’re all learning to do things better, differently, and serve our market to the best of our ability. Every day we’re faced with new challenges, and more changes. Learning to embrace them, and develop those four change-related skills can mean all the difference; for all of us.

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  1. Anonymous

    This is awesome Kim! Thank you for sharing.

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  3. Rlgerth7

    Change is the constant in our world today.  We have to understand, appreciate and be prepared to offer the traditional, the familiar; at the same time we have to work with our families to learn what they don’t know, and help them find the items and events that will bring them the most meaning.  We have to learn to ask the questions, and be the guides on their journey through this process.  The tried and true road map has not always been handed from one generation to the next.  We need to guide them to the place where they feel satisfied with the memorialization and capable of working on their own new normals after a loss.  That is our value today and it will be of paramount value in the future.

  4. Philip Aucott

    great advice, I’m just starting out and need all the knowledge I can get.

  5. Anonymous

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  6. Anonymous

     Very good points! Your families need all the guidance and support they can get from you!